Remedies to Shitty Times

As my last post may have implied, I have been rather down lately. However, I have been incredibly lucky to have been looked after by a very supportive group of friends, both kinky and vanilla. I have realised just how special some of these friends are to me, and how much of a support network I have in them. I think that, like kinky relationships, kinky friendships often gather momentum much more quickly than vanilla ones. One has to build up trust very quickly in a kinky friendship. I have known most of my kinky friends for less than a year, but, through watching them play and having them around as I play, I know how difficult it is for them to really hurt someone, how perceptive they can be of the feelings of other people and how ready they are to step in if they see something go wrong for someone. It seems that the open-minded mentality of the kink scene breeds loyalty within friends - I know that I don't have to worry about being judged. YKIOK (Your Kink Is OK) is a mentality that extends much deeper into such friendships, and I don't feel that I have to hide parts of myself that other people may not understand for fear of them not being accepted. I am incedibly lucky to have such people around, and I am extremely grateful for their support over the past few weeks. 

All of this support, combined with a rather large number of distractions and moments of escapism, have allowed me to relax a bit after the initial storm has blown over. Because of this, the past week has been the most fantastic of my kinky life to date and I have been spoilt rotten with surprises and pervery. I would like to write a very long account of all of it, but I suspect that that would be rather dull to read, so I am going to write several different blogposts about individual topics over the next few days...