A Brief Introduction

It probably seems that the title for this blog is totally random. It is. But it does summarise my intentions for my future ramblings pretty well I think. Firstly, both ski socks and flip flops are pretty everyday objects (if you are the kind of exciting person who, like me, likes to go to snowy mountains and tropical beaches, not if you are a boring recluse). Most of what I write about will, I suspect, seem slightly crazy to your average 'vanilla'. But, to me, kink is so integrated into my life that I sometimes don't notice that it is a bit odd. In fact, it is so 'everyday' that can quite happily walk into a friends house and obliviously sit on a spanking bench whilst we have a nice chat about the weather. Secondly, they are both totally contradictory to each other. This, in part, reflects the fact that I go by the online psuedonym 'Walking Oxymoron'. But it also explains me very well. Like many people on the scene, I do not look like someone who you might imagine to be a sexual deviant. When out and about, I don't act any differently from anyone else. In fact, I like to think that I appear fairly innocent and demure. But I have a dark side...

This blog is about my dark side. Specifically, the emotional side of it. I want to convey the idea that, behind the whips and canes and other fun things, is a variety of very normal, 'vanilla' feelings. They just choose to display themselves in some unconventional places.

My first few posts will be a backlog of some of the existing weblog that I have - I want to transfer my blog here to try to retain some anonymity. That explains my prolific blogging on the 8th November.